Above all, this individual fails to recognize the devastating impact of his self-destructive behavior and the ripple effect it has on the lives of those around him. He refuses to admit any fault or wrongdoing. Until his last breath, he will stubbornly insist that he is the victim, disregarding every attempt made to assist him. Each sad story he told was merely a facade to seek attention and sympathy. This vicious cycle is one he will never break free from. His inability to acknowledge that he is the root cause of others' pain and suffering will ultimately lead to his downfall. Deep down, he harbors a disdain for himself, yet he will never confront this truth. Anyone who dares to hold a mirror to his actions will become a target for his anger, rage, manipulation, and torment. Even long after you have left his life, he will continue to view you with contempt and will never take responsibility for his faults. His web of lies will persist, and the cycle of seeking new victims will go on unabated. This belief that he is the perpetual victim will endure. It’s tragic to witness, but he is, in fact, a victim of his own making. He will remain trapped in these cycles, doomed to repeat them endlessly. His existence is confined to this cage of his own design, endlessly spinning on a hamster wheel, fueled by his hatred, yet going nowhere.
There is absolutely no justification for the harmful behavior he perpetuates. He embodies a predatory personality that devastates lives, leaving countless individuals to pick up the pieces of what he has shattered. We all recognize that life is challenging, and sometimes things unravel, but that's not the point here. I’m not referencing life's inevitable mishaps; I'm shining a light on deliberate choices. He consciously chose to degrade and mistreat others. He made the choice to instill fear in someone simply because he possessed the power to do so. He repeatedly inflicted harm on good people while desperately clinging to an image of innocence. In my experience, such actions do not define a good person; they exemplify pure evil.
At the end of the day, I am unequivocally responsible for expressing my truth, my healing, and rising again to reclaim what was taken from me. I want to be clear: I have risen. I stand tall and unwavering, grounded with a fearless heart. I refuse to endure fearful silence any longer. I am one of the lucky ones. I made it out, and for that, I'm grateful. I made it through all of that chaos with the Lord's hand on me. Now, I am going to tell my story. He underestimated me. How did he put it; I "won't shut up." Smiles.
Take care and be blessed.